You remember when you are in the range of late teens to 20 years, and you become one of the popular woman in the office or in your community. Every time you walk into a room, it seems every person stop you from having to watch you. You may not be pretty like a model, but you have an innate self-absorbed and exciting style of dress. But now, in this age range 30-40 years everything changed. Trends in clothing that is offered in shopping malls again it was not friendly to you. You no longer clubbing all night because you are sleepy at 21.00 and must accompany the child to sleep. Brochures sent to you is no longer about cosmetics, distributions, or the latest gadgets, but a home appliance, package holiday to Europe, or from bank loans without collateral. Wow .... Bak former officials of the affected post-power syndrome, you are also affected by the syndrome formerly hot: women who used to be popular, but now unnoticed. You no longer slim, no longer always in places where young tongkrongan, no longer a topic of conversation. This may make you feel something is missing from your self, feel unwanted, or feel left out. Stephanie Dolgoff, author of My Formerly Hot Life: Dispatches from Just the Other Side of Young, described what happened to the women who have left the phase of a sexy woman at the age of 20. According to him, you are no longer considered sexy. Here are 7 Things That Make Women Feel Sexy, namely:
- No more of your friends who said that the A or the B often talk about you, and scrape out any information about you.
- When you enter a room full of people, you are no longer a concern. In fact, the men were ignoring you, as if you are not there.
- When you try to look tight t-shirt at a department store salesman and need help, they will say, "Make her yes, ma'am?"
- Men who approach you in public service vehicles are now asking the time because they really want to know if they are not late, not to invite you to talk (and then ask for a phone number).
- Waiter, clerk, or security guards, no longer call you "Ma'am", but "Mom". However, it does not mean life in the next phase, ie at age 30-40 years, at all boring. Dolgoff do not want the women to think like that. For him, there are many advantages to being female is no longer popular, and in particular, no longer young.
- You are not easily influenced by others. While still a teenager, or their early 20s, you probably love the love songs that tells of heartbreak, betrayal, or misunderstanding. You feel the songs are so disconnected with your own experiences so feel created specifically for you. But now, after marrying and having children, you feel life is just flat. Indeed, a bit boring, yes, if you can not feel how to fall in love again, it was decided, then found a new man again. However, with the quiet life, you can sleep more soundly at night. You also realize that the way you dress or your taste in music is no longer influenced by other people. When there is a new mall or restaurant recently opened, you do not worry say "baseball slang" because they have not tried it.
- You can still buy good shoes. As you get older, you no longer have the freedom in choosing clothes. At the early age of 20s, you probably wont wear tank tops, shorts, or a jacket with a hood. The more bizarre your makeup, the more you are noticed. And other people just smile at your youthfulness. But if you choose the dress style of young people now, you probably will be forgotten age, or having a midlife crisis. How prick felt those words. Even so, you can still express yourself through the shoe. Shoes with beads, crystals, buckles, or high-heeled shoes with wedge model, sling back, peep-toe, whatever was jamming the trend now, you can wear them.
