Decide on a love affair, both of which already existed for years or just a few days, is not easy. Although you do not want to hurt her, but when you seemed to be passed are no longer able. So how then? And you also do not want him to hurt her. But the breakup of his name, nothing that did not hurt right? All you can do is make it a less 'civilized'. The trick? Do a few things below. Here are 7 ways to sever links Good And True Love, namely:
1. Create Preparation
Decide on a love affair is certainly not a sudden decision, so take the time to prepare your decision is. Because the better your preparation, the less likely you are affected emotionally. Parties decided, would be sad and will most likely cry. Prepare also a clear answer and be accepted by him, when he asked the reason.
2. Make It The First To Know
Usually before making this decision, you will ask and ask for consideration of the closest friends. But that does not mean they have to notify your spouse. Respect your partner and tell me your decision, before someone else told him.
3. Meet Face Is The Best
It's easier to say good bye by phone, email or SMS. But you would know if how it will impress you coward, especially for your partner. And usually, will not be easy for couples to create friendships or opportunities, if it turns out you change your mind. To avoid karma, for example diputusin boyfriend through Friendster or Facebook, you should respect your partner with the state face to face.
4. Find the Best Right Time
Disconnected, it can take a right. Do not say goodbye when you are both celebrating birthdays, anniversaries or events that should be fun. Best day to say the word break is Friday, because today is the last day of work. So, he can 'remove themselves' on a Saturday and Sunday to cool off from the world 'outside'.
5. Find The Right Location
Another important thing to think about, is to choose the right place to say the word 'broken'. Find a neutral location without an atmosphere that has sentimental value for you both, as well as a favorable place to avoid the curious stares of others. For example in a restaurant that was not too crowded, so if there is a cry that came out, you will not feel ashamed. The location was somewhat remote and quiet, for example at the mall or park, in the hours which of course was not too crowded.
6. Choose the sentence say it Right
NowTo avoid a wrong impression, say your thoughts and decisions that are clear, honest and simple. Tell how your pain in making this decision, let him know if you had to suffer and if you did not issue a decision. Without having to blame himself, let him know what problems you experience and say that this is probably the best decision for both of you. It is not wrong if you have hope in a relationship, but the bond of two hearts will not work when it is no longer tied with love. Avoid lying to avoid feeling hurt, on the contrary, with the sentence honestly say that in order carefully. Consider carefully every word you, because on other occasions you may see him again.
7. Let It Mastering State
When disconnected, the reaction of different people, from laughter to tears, others accept it with a serious face or like disbelief. Give him time to understand the situation, then let him express his feelings (if he wants). Although he understands what you mean, sometimes he hopes you change your mind and give opportunity to rectify the situation. Please answer if you have thought very carefully and the decision was unanimous. It would be much better, than let the unpleasant relations continuously. If necessary, let him decide when the conversation is considered complete.
